We start by letting go

Reflections at the turning of the year

As I stood at Stanton Drew and watched the sun go down on 2025

it occurred to me that this was a simple example of what it means to be in development

– in development we support each other to live meaningful lives.

 

 Experiencing the gradual shifting of light

in a place that’s held significance for thousands of years

felt deeply meaningful

– so much more than any turning of a clock counter

(or the fleeting flash of fireworks).

However we mark it there is meaning in this new year moment.

Perhaps this is the one time when we recognise how opposites inhabit each other? 

 

When our thoughts naturally to turn to endings and beginnings,

we can see the truth in TS Elliot’s suggestion that 

“the end is where we start from”

 

The turning of the year reminds us that each moment

  each step on the journey of life – 

is both an end and a beginning

and we cannot begin anything without letting go.

Many journeys start on uncertain grounds 

along the borders of anxiety

but I’m practiced enough now to wait

for the deep sigh that comes like a welcome breeze

with a reminder that in development

we have to let go

There is no movement without release. 

If you’re not sure of this, try this little experiment that I read about this morning: 

Clasp your hands tightly and at the same time think as hard as you can that you cannot not take them apart.
Then, whilst concentrated on that thought, try to separate them.
You can try as hard as you like but you’ll find it impossible
until you dismiss the thought
and accept that there is no reason in the world
why you should not let go

So I’d like to invite you to start the year

by stepping out from your front door,

to see what you can let go of

and if you can find the freedom

to begin again

 in development. 

“For last year’s words belong to last year’s language and next year’s words await another voice”

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